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When Things Get Though

There are moments in our lives that things get out of control we wish to do something but things seems to be not going our way. Something saying its not right but we still do it anyway even we are aware that it's not right. That's when things becomes complicated, then we start complaining. We start feeling so down and complaining to God why he let it happened without realizing that its our own fault in the first place.

When things get though we tend to put the blame to other people,situation and even God but we don't realize our own mistakes. When we have lots of worries it usually blocks our eyes with so much cloud.

Its a cloud of fear,worry and shame of what we did but our first defense is to look for someone or something to blame except ourselves.But what should we do in times like this?Some do foolish things like going to vices like drugs, alcoholism and so on or even trying to commit suicide. But what do we really need to do especially in moments that we really don't know what to do?

Best thing is to pause, stop thinking, stop worrying stop looking for excuses. Accept that you have made a mistake and move on, in silence we can usually hear our soul talking to us. That's the time to listen to our heart to the voice deep within and if you still don't know what to do..... kneel and pray or sing a song. If you don't know what to pray about or what to sing just keep silent... you can cry at times. Crying releases our pain, fears and worries and even clears our mind because it rest for awhile because the heart poured its content through our tears.

Then that's the time to move and face the truth that's what I usually do, don't know what others do, but you can try this.

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