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Life Begins @ 40!



Yes, it's been a while since I visited the site and write, Busy? Nah! I  forgot the email address I used for this site  (sign of old age- it's been 9 years since I started this blog). But today I got lucky it suddenly pop-up on my mobile phone :)

One of the first article I wrote here is about being single, well I am still single but I do have a fiance, we've been together now for five years. Being single and independent for a long time gives you that feeling of freedom that makes you too comfortable and not really thinking of getting married. Well after five years in a relationship I finally wanted to give it a try :) It may sound a little late for a woman like me but who cares! There's no age limit nor age qualification for you to get married. Though our female body clock may say otherwise but getting married should not be base on a person's age because each and everyone of us has a choice. No person can tell us when to get married, the only person who can say we are ready to do the plunge is ourselves. So to all ladies out there, I know the feeling when all of your friends are getting married, having kids and all your relatives bugging you get married. Take your time and enjoy being single, getting married is not a race but it is a journey you must enjoy. In my case I plan almost everything in my life (you can see it from my previous post) however I never planned getting married. Not because I don't want to get married but for me once your heart is ready it will surely come. Like what happened to me. Now I can truly say that my life will finally begin at forty.

More post to come for now this is just the start :)

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